Life is a fairy tale if you stop long enough to think about it! ❤
While I think this whole thing is somewhat sudden, I really sincerely do hope that Sulli is alright. Idol life is immensely difficult and I know I couldn’t handle it. I have my own opinions when regarding this because of SM, but
That doesn’t excuse
You’re bashing her why? “Well I think she could’ve tried harder!”
"I think she should have waited until after Red Light promotions!"
"It’s her fault that fx had to stop their comeback early!"
First off, SM is pretty much the one in control. Maybe they can give suggestions and maybe they can’t, but at the end of the day, sm holds the power so it’s not Sulli who made the rest of fx not continue the comeback, it’s Sm.
Also, while upsetting, it’s completely unfair to tell her she should have waited or talk about how selfish she is or any other stupid reason because, there are a couple options here.
Note: I am not saying these are true or false. I’m going off of what I’ve heard people theorizing because the theories aren’t really the point, it’s if you think these and bash her, you indeed need to shut up.
1. SM is telling the truth and she needs a break.
This means that she now is seriously having emotional trauma. It might not even be the rumors and hate that was the main cause of it, but it certainly didn’t help. These artists are pushed and pushed and wrung dry. I’m sure there’s lots of stress that she couldn’t handle anymore. Like hate, sasaengs, not having control over her own life, lack of privacy, etc.
Wow, looking at the facts, bashing Sulli makes no sense. You’re hating on her for her mental state and blaming her for breaking under pressure that’s been mounting for YEARS!
So wow if you read this and think it’s a plausible reason and you’re bashing her then you’re a jerk and get out.
(Also it’s up to a company to make sure an idol is happy and healthy. That’s literally supposed to be a large part of their job. Seems like sm has been doing a great job, right?)
2. Sulli’s health is worse than anyone would like to reveal and so they kept it quiet by coming up with a different reason.
Do I even need to explain why this possibility also makes bashing her make no sense? Bashing someone for health reasons makes you a douche.
3. It’s a coverup for sm/fx is being ignored/Sulli is sm’s favorite.
These all are the fault of SM NOT Sulli. Bashing her when you think one of these is true literally makes no sense. You bash her instead of the source of the problem? Makes no sense at all.
Bash SM then, not Sulli.
4. She didn’t care/doesn’t care/is rude
This goes back to any number of the others. This does not negate her having health problems whether physical or mental. You wouldn’t look at a cancer victim and go, “Well you didn’t care during life so you deserved it and now I’ll try to destroy you with words.
So does this mean bashing her is okay?
5. She got pregnant/is having an abortion
WOOOOOWWW Okay first off, this is a pretty serious allegation to make without proof and one that I sincerely doubt, but since people are bashing her for it.
She’s human! You have no idea what the repercussions of such a thing are to an idol. An idol who has to pretend to be a pretty princess flower who has nothing on her other than loving music and pleasing her fans.
This is entertainment to you, but it’s her life that she has to live. Bashing her helps nothing. If you think it’s okay to go after someone for stuff like this because they ruined your precious comeback, then you really need to straighten out your priorities.
6. She’s dating *insert whoever here*
Please look at #5
Some of these even include things she could gain mental strain from.
If you want to bash someone, please don’t bash someone who is probably already haven a hard enough time. Find yourself a hobby or something or maybe question why it got so bad she had to do this and how it did.
So yeah don’t bash her because it’s stupid and rude and pigheaded and you have no excuse.
This is coming from someone who isn’t even really her fan.
J: What did i do today... I was at home. And this makes me seem like I'm not a very active person. But these days my condition isnt very good. And what did i do yesterday? I went sightseeing. I'm living with a lot of complicated thoughts in mind.